(Note: these are just random bisexual articles I’ve pieced together from the internet over the years… I don’t necessarily agree with all of this, I’ll go back over and add my own life experience later.)
Bromancing the Stone: Brother Husbands – Bromances- Eskimo Brothers
Men are sexual beings, whom given a little encouragement, and in the right circumstances, most definitely would experiment with the same sex. In fact, many men have, but as most gay men know, it’s something they would never admit to. Most may never even cop to being “bi curious.”
There is no such thing as 100% straight or gay. Therefore a straight guy can be seduced by another guy and a gay guy can be seduced by a woman. That’s just how it is. You have to play your cards right though. He will never love you. As long as you remember this rule you can have a lot of fun. You can fuck and have wild nasty sex. When it’s all said and done he’s going back home to his wife or girlfriend.
Wives and girlfriends mean nothing – I don’t give a fuck. I’ve seduced straight guys right in front of their wives and/or girlfriends. It means nothing. Gay guys really need to wake up.
Just because a guy is married or has a girlfriend does not mean he has zero fantasies about guys. The truth of the matter is, many straight guys do have gay fantasies about being bottoms. With their women they’ll be assertive in sex but they secretly fantasize about being a bottom with a guy; but that’s all they remain, just fantasies. They would never have the courage to realize those fantasies, and that’s why YOU must play your part to help them! (And also, this frequently leads to invitations from couples for some play.)
Now this is every straight guy’s nightmare—that bi and gay guys are always out to seduce them. Believe me, that’s not true. It’s just probably easier for a bi guy.
And, for the most part, if you’re bi, the straight guy isn’t going to worry too much about being seen in public with someone who may appear “too gay,” so you can outwardly be “hang out” buddies without anyone being the wiser… but they all allowed themselves to be in positions of opportunity, and so, it’s up to the bi guy to recognize those opportunities and make the move. To a straight guy, a bi guy isn’t carrying the baggage that a woman may seem to be carrying. There’s no talk of a marriage, or another date or even who’s paying for dinner.
And if you have a girlfriend, you have a connection. You can talk about her body parts, and how great sex is with her, and it’s less threatening to him. The subject of sex will no doubt crop up. Men talk about sex all the time.
You must seduce them. You have to be active. A straight guy will NEVER chase after you. I see so many gay guys who can’t figure this one out. Any guy who is chasing you is not straight no matter what you think. To bag a straight guy you must be the assertive one. * If a straight guy is so inclined, he wants to get it over with quickly, and he knows you don’t expect a long-lasting relationship.* The straight guy sees a jaunt with another guy merely as an emotionally meaningless diversion for quick sexual satisfaction.
A guy who is bromosexual is [in denial] and “totally straight.” In fact he will punch you in the face if you say that he’s gay. He’s so totally straight that he has sex with tons of chicks… sure his bro might be in the room with him, maybe videotaping it (with lots of close-ups of the penis)… or doing the same girl at the same time… with their penises touching… So what if he’s always slapping his bro’s ass… and always hangs out in the showers at the gym… and yeah, maybe he was in a few circle jerks in middle school… and sure that frat initiation thing was a bit weird, but… HE IS TOTALLY 100% NOT GAY.
There’s something about being a man, looking at another man, realizing he’s attractive, realizing you would like to know him, spend time with him, perhaps even touch him. There’s the mystery and magic of seeing another man naked, seeing his body as something beautiful, attractive, sensual, inviting.
There’s something about being at one with another man’s mind, relating to it, identifying with it, sharing with that particular man his innermost thoughts.
There’s a feeling of being set apart from the general brotherhood of man, a recognition of certain facets of life that other men don’t seem to have or understand, and you feel a certain pity for them because they don’t have the gift, or they don’t allow themselves to identify it. Ain’t nothing wrong with being a little gay, everyone’s a little gay. (insert running a train on women is … need for homo erotic intimacy.)
The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure that you seek. We can’t go on together with suspicious minds, and we can’t build our dreams on suspicious minds.
I dream of a world where chickens can cross the road without having their motives questioned. It’s not gay.It’s respect.
Why Some Straight Men Are Romantically or Sexually Attracted to Other Men. The truth is that many men who have sex with men aren’t gay or even bisexual. Although their mental and emotional state resembles that of the initial stages of coming out, gay and bisexual men go on to develop a gay or a bisexual identity, whereas these men don’t. Many types of men engage in same-sex relationships, for a variety of reasons, which I will identify for you. Here are a few of them:
Father hunger: These are heterosexual men who crave affection and attention from their fathers and seek platonic intimacy with men as a way of getting that male nurturance and acceptance…. If Neglected Homophobic social litmus can sometimes collapse into sexual.
Sexual orientation toward men but emotional/romantic orientation toward women: These are men who are romantically attracted to women and are usually partnered with women. They can be sexual with women they love, but they are predominately aroused and driven sexually by desire for sex with other men.
Narcissism: These are straight men who are self-absorbed and have a constant need for attention and acceptance; they use sexuality with men to be worshipped and adored.
Sexual addiction: “Gay” behavior can be the result of sexual addiction. But even a “cured” sex addict may still feel attracted to men, as do celibate gay priests.
There is an initiation hunger at play in some of these dynamics. Initiation hunger may also express itself in other sexual scenarios such as fantasizing a gang bang. (insert running a train on… toxic masculinity… homoerotic/ homosocial intimacy.)
Cuckolding: These straight men enjoy fantasies of — or the reality of — their female partners having sex with other men, either in front of them, nearby or with their knowledge about when and where it occurs. They’re often sexually aroused by feeling humiliated that their female partners are being pleased by another man whom they see as more potent and better endowed. Other men enjoy being sexual with another man’s female partner in front of him, or at least with his knowledge. Sometimes they engage in sexual behavior with the man, but only in the presence of the female partner.
Exhibitionism: These straight men enjoy being looked at by both men and women as long as they are being admired for their bodies. Many are body builders and muscular and enjoy the homoerotic attention of gay men and might even flirt with gay men to encourage more admiration.
There’s something about being a man who can be intimate with another man, to know the joy of exploring a body similar to your own, a masculine kiss, the sensation of holding his genitals in your hand, their texture and weight, their ever changing size and shape, their warmth, their taste, always aware of their purpose, and yes, the feel of his penis inside. There’s something about trusting another man, of knowing him so well that you can share with and abandon all of the secret treasures of your sexuality.
and I ask myself again, “What is it about men?”
“What It Is About Men?/Understand once he was a family man/So surely I would never, ever go through it first hand/Emulate all the shit my mother hated/I can’t help but demonstrate my Freudian fate/My alibi for taking your guy/History repeats itself, it fails to die/And animal aggression is my downfall/I don’t care ’bout what you got I want it all/
It’s bricked up in my head, it’s shoved under my bed/And I question myself again: what is it ’bout men?/My destructive side has grown a mile wide/And I question myself again: what is it ’bout men?
I’m nurturing, I just wanna do my thing/And I’ll take the wrong man as naturally as I sing/And I’ll save my tears for uncovering my fears/For behavioral patterns that stick over the years”
so in your personal life you’ve never had sex with guys just for the fun of it? Any dysfunction with showing affection toward one another is, maybe, that we just don’t know how. Can we hug and see who gets a boner first? The only fun dick is a hard dick. I don’t play with flacid penises. So unless your penis gets hard, there are no worries. Even if your phallus is hard: The worst that can happen is it gets sucked and you like it… big deal. I love dick. Relax it’s just sex. Keep calm and fuck homophobia. We may not be able to completely fulfill each other, yet there’s plenty wonderful pleasurable amazing things we can do:
-Send me naked pictures, I love that shit. In my world sexting is currency. It’s spiritual for me, the fact that you trust me with such timeless treasure amplifies my innermost vibrations exponentially.
-Massages: by touching you I get to know myself better. Can I feel your chest fur? Armpit worship.
-Mutual masturbation:
It sounds like you’re both hetro… and just curious, or just simply want to compare just to fucking compare – no biggy.
But if you’re of age, try and get a girl to do a 3some with both of you.
You’ll be able to compare if the situation goes right.
Circle jerks, like solitary masturbation are normal and do not make you gay or bi if you have or do enjoy to participate in them. It is a sign of growth and maturity. Everyone is comfortable and if you don’t want others lending a helping-hand we respect that. With pre-established ground rules I say “Why not?” Be nude and be happy. For myself it’s more a spiritual experience, I just think it is hot to all cum together.
If you like his and he likes yours, there is no harm in touching his junk to see if you like it. Just make sure that he feels the same about your cock. Haha just some food for thought.
“What most of the men soon came to understand themselves was if they were going to make it out of such desperate straits, their only hope is to ‘pull’ together.”
It is similar to watching porn. Most males use some sort of visual stimulation when they masturbate alone. Does he only watch lesbian porn or does he watch porn with one man and one girl? Seeing a penis for a man internally releases more testosterone because there is now competition. Seeing another penis or masturbating in a group will give you a harder, longer, and thicker erection because of the unconscious need to compete and be the “bigger” man. It intensifies the male orgasm. It’s why men like gangbangs. If guys weren’t into dick then there would only be lesbian porn. Straight Men Love Looking At Penises
It sounds contradictory, but straight men apparently enjoy looking at penises almost as much as they do vaginas. As part of their research for their book A Billion Wicked Thoughts, Sai Gaddam and Ogi Ogas—those two again—ranked Internet searches in terms of popularity from their NSA-sized database. Their results showed that search terms for female genitalia are only just more popular than search terms for male genitalia, by a factor so small there’s practically zero difference.Other research the pair did seems to bear this out, too—an analysis of the 40,000 or so most popular porn sites in the world found that over 1,000 were heterosexual sites with an emphasis on comically large penises, while a “porn aggregator” site that listed the top 100 sexual images on the web by rating included 21 that were purely close-ups of male genitals. The inference is that many straight men like nothing more than to stare at another guy’s junk.
The secret desires of men: what Cosmo won’t tell you!
New research on the anatomical parts men prefer to view.
Published on April 29, 2011 by Ogi Ogas, Ph.D. in A Billion Wicked Thoughts
Our research into sexual desire unearthed a number of genuine surprises that defy conventional wisdom. One of our most fascinating findings concerns the sex appeal of anatomical parts. Both straight and gay men enjoy ogling chests, butts, and feet. But for straight men, another body part was more popular than butts and feet combined, the same organ that tops gay men’s preferences: the penis.
Heterosexual men are very interested in penises.
Here’s the AOL search history of one fan of oversized organs, Mr. Amish:
big cocks
big dicks
monster cocks
tight pussy big dicks
long dong sex
big texas cocks
enormous cocks
gigantic cocks
big white dick sex
horny Amish women
The number of searches for “pussy” in our Web search data just barely beats out searches for “dick,” 1,096,614 to 938,134. Big Dick is a popular category of porn on all of the major heterosexual adult tube sites, including PornHub, the most popular adult video site in the world.
For men, the penis can never be too big. Just .2 percent of men wish they had a smaller penis, compared to 9 percent of women who wish they had smaller breasts. Indeed, there are more than six times the number of searches for “big dick” than “small dick.” In our set of 42,337 most popular adult sites in the world, there are 1,072 Web sites that feature heterosexual porn with large penises, including Monsters Of Cock, Mr.Biggz, and Teens Like It Big. The number of sites devoted to small penises? Just three: PinkyDick, Little-Cock, and My Tiny Dick.
Men’s second most favorite anatomical part.
So why might the male organ captivate men’s attention? One possible explanation may lay with our primate cousins. Among New World monkeys, Old World monkeys, and the apes, the penis is a prominent and versatile social tool. The erect primate penis is used as a sign of male-male aggression, to mark territory, and as a sexual invitation to females. If the invitation is witnessed by a competing male, the erect penis can provoke hostility and attacks. When male Savanna baboons meet, they frequently perform an intense greeting which scientists have endowed with the technical term diddling—”the fondling of the penis and scrotum.”
It may also be a visual cue that motivates males to copulate with a female shortly after she has mated with a competing male—what biologists call a sperm competition cue—the subject of a future blog.
A lot of true wifesharing stories start out with someone getting a good look at another guy’s cock or hearing about how big it is and deciding they want to see it used on their wife, of telling the wife about it and then her getting interested, etc.
It’s a toss-up whether our culture’s more obsessed with breasts or dicks, but we apply one maxim to both: the bigger, the better. While breasts are on display pretty much everywhere, cocks are usually kept under wraps, until recently seen mainly in locker rooms, bedrooms, artwork, nude beaches, and porn. Men rarely have the advantage of push-up bras; what you see is pretty much what you get, despite spam promising otherwise.
However, dicks are becoming more prominent, whether in magazines like Playgirl and underwear company plays up the huge bulges of its well-packaged models. Men may compare their equipment to these out-and-proud cocks and feel like they’ve gotten the short end of the stick. Ultimately, it’s to men’s advantage to learn how to wield, not extend, their tools.
(This “I like to imagine she’s doing it to me” is bullshit. Guys need to get a clue and admit dick does turn most of them on, either from slight fascination or all the way. Sorry but most people are bisexual and men need to become ‘man enough’ to admit it.)
Touch yourself and let me watch you. You, myself, or both of us may want to abstain from sexual intercourse for any number of reasons. One reason could be prevention of sexually transmitted diseases. Mutual Masturbation gives us total control over where both of our fluids will end up. This will lessen any chance of either one of us contracting an STD. Another reason being no homo. If this is the case, mutual masturbation will help us stick to our personal commitments while still allowing us to express our sexuality.
***Why do men circle jerk?
Almost all guys who are honest will admit to being curious about how their cocks measure up on the size spectrum. For straight guys, women’s appraisal of their dicks is paramount…
Light is brought forth on an otherwise dark and taboo subject of masturbation. It’s a fundamental bonding session of full disclosure. It is more of a show-n-tell for grown men. We would all look around and see what the others were packing. No one cares about your sexual preference, it’s just great to be curious guys. There’s something arousing about being seen and watching.
-Rimming: I love rimming. Keep calm and sit on my face. I love eating hairy ass.
–Blow-jobs: Drop your pants and let me blow you. A lil head never hurt anybody. Keep calm and put your penis in my mouth. No matter if it’s cut or uncut, I still love being a cock worshipper. Free blow job with this coupon. Eat meat. Save a lollipop, suck a dick. We can gag & choke extra hard on each other. I’m always in the mood to make you cum. l enjoy having hot cum shot in my mouth, and love licking jizz off of cocks. I also love to swallow. If you cum in my mouth, it’s rude not to swallow.
-Group sex, orgies, three ways, and double penetrating women: Admit it, you usually fall asleep after you cum. Not in a threesome, you go again, and again. Usually the woman is just ramping up as you are rolling off. Two men making her feel good is not competition, instead rather, it focuses on co-operation. It isn’t only the woman who finds DP wildly exciting: with the men’s organs separated by only spongy internal tissues, they can often feel each other’s dicks inside the woman, adding more friction to their own pleasure. Similarly, because of the pressure and the thrusting in both the vagina and anus, the female organs naturally swell, so that each orifice may feel tighter around each penis. it is just more pleasurable.
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